The Writing Shell Game

Every time I’m in a city I see a man drawing passersby into a shell game.

He’ll have a tiny card table set up. three folded cards on top, or three tiny cups, and he’s shuffling them around, talking fast, and convincing someone to play ‘guess where the ball is now’.

It’s deceptively simple: just follow the ball, and win some money.

We all think we can do that. But the secret is that we are playing a different game from the operator of the con. We expect him to play fair. He knows that the game is to cheat. We only find the ball when he wants us to.

I’m always astonished that there is anyone left in the world who thinks they can win at a shell game.

Pick a Method, Any Method

The writing world is rife with shell games. Someone promising us the perfect system for drafting, for revising, for getting published…but the truth is, they are not promising a system that will work for us, only what worked once or twice for them.

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A New Year’s Eve Challenge

Do this before midnight…

Decide.

That’s it.

Decide that you are a writer.

(Decide: from the Latin deciderer- ‘to cut off’.)

When you decide to do something your brain stops worrying about “if” and starts working on “how”. And that’s how things get done.

Let’s cut off all the prevarication, the shilly -shallying, the ‘maybe I can wriggle out of the hard work by pretending I’m not really that bothered about being a writer’, the ‘maybe someone else will write the book my audience needs, and I’m ok with that’. Leave all that in the year that is ending.

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Schedule A Holiday Date with your Inner Writer

Just a quick note today to wish you happy holiday season (I can’t pick one. Celebrate them all!)

And to encourage to you pick one way to stay connected to your writing this month, so that you don’t go into the New Year with a creative hangover.

Some suggestions:

  • Join the free 5-Day Challenge ​(five tiny tasks to see you through to the new year. We start on Dec 27, this year.)
  • Read: How To Make The Most of ​People-Watching Season​
  • Learn: take the ​Holiday Story Workshop​ (or request/give it as a gift)
  • Listen: to this​ January podcast episode​ in which I lament not staying connected to my writing over the holidays (and learn from my mistakes!)
  • Make a plan to give yourself the gift of some small intervals of time, this season, where you will leave the hustle and bustle behind and just be with your imaginary friends (no pressure to add new words. Just commune with your story worlds!). Let us know your commitment in the comments, here.

A Writer’s Life

What to write, how to write it, and where to talk about it…

What’s life really like as a writer? Well, the answer is as varied as the number of writers you ask, but for me, this is how things are going: Listen in, you might be inspired!

LINKS

Join Superstars + I, WRITER Course at a discount before Dec 15, 2024

Join the StoryADay Superstars for year-round support

Writing Prompts: Writing Prompts By Category

Flash Fiction Primer: Flash Fiction Essentials

The StoryADay blog: Blog – StoryADay

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Tell Me What You Want

(What you really, really want…)

At some point, you started following me: maybe for writing prompts (like these), maybe for inspiration and recommendations (like this), or maybe for something else entirely.

As I hatch plans for the coming year, I’d love to know how I can help you, best?

What do you need more of? What could you take less of?

How can I help you pursue your dreams?

I’d love it if you’d fill out this 2-question survey

(People often find that answering the questions helps them clarify where they need to focus.)

If you didn’t make it to our Annual Planning Workshop, this week, this exercise can be a springboard into your own end-of-year assessment/planning.

​Answer the questions here​

Keep writing,

Julie

Release The Hounds (aka ‘your stories’)

As I sit here, thinking about what I want to achieve over the next year as a writer, that generosity of spirit is something I want to keep in focus…

Note: I might be writing this message for myself.

One of the best things I did for myself this year was to take a chance on a book of poetry: Poetry Unbound by Pádraig Ó Tuama

(This is why I will never give up on physical bookstores and libraries: the sheer joy of stumbling across books and taking a chance on them!)

I’m not a poetry expert and often find books of poetry unsatisfying, as I sit there thinking, “‘what am I supposed to get from this? What am I missing?”

Well, Ó Tuama’s book follows up each poem with an essay in which he tells you what he loves about the poem. It’s not prescriptive. It’s not an attempt to tell you what you should get out of the poem, but it does offer a way in.

A Great Start To The Day

Every day that I start by reading a poem and essay from this book, is a good day.

I start my day thinking about words and what can be done with them.

I start my day thinking about how words affect the people who read them.

I start my day with black and white proof that it is possible to use words to share tiny moments and experiences, to be brave enough to put them out into the world, and to find other people who will be moved by them.

And that’s a pretty good way to start the day.

Borrowed focus.

Borrowed courage.

A chipping-away of my excuses.

Do The Work

In a recent conversation with one of the StoryADay Superstars she talked about a gift she made for her brother.

It was challenging (so much that she put off starting, for years), it was a little beyond her skill set (so much that it was imperfect) AND yet she resolved to finish it and give it to her brother anyway.

Of course, he loved it.

He saw all the things that were right with it, not the few tiny details that could maybe have been neater…

Perfectionism Generosity

As I sit here thinking about what I want to achieve over the coming year as a writer, that generosity of spirit is something I want to keep in mind: a willingness to finish things and share them, and let them be enjoyed.

To not withhold.

To not be arrogant enough to think I’ll ever ‘get it right’.

To be bold enough to finish and share my stories.

How about you?

What inspires you? What gives you courage? What’s the best thing you’ve done for yourself over the past year? What’s the most generous thing you will do, in the coming year?