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00:00 StADa235 A Writer’s Life

00:27 Bluesky/BSKY

05:16 Flash Fiction Notes

11:49 The Power Of Others

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Coaching with Julie

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20241214 Podcast

Good morning, good evening, good afternoon. Julie from Story A Day here and this week’s podcast I’m going to catch you up with a bunch of things that have been going on in my writing week in the hope that I can inspire you or encourage you to think about your own writing, maybe give you a few ideas and just share this thing that we do, maybe some resources as well.
So Things from my week.

[00:00:27] Bluesky/BSKY

I joined BlueSky and I always like to investigate new technologies and platforms and things like that. And I, Twitter has been increasingly unusable for the past nine years.

I loved it back in 2007, all the way through to about 2015. And then I started to hate it, and I never really liked Facebook, but I jumped on Threads to see what was going on there.

And I’ve been trying to use Instagram, but for my purposes, it’s not really great, because it’s a visual website. platform and I’m not really in the visual medium and you can’t provide links because how I always used to use social media was to provide links to resources, places you could submit things, articles I’d written, things like that.

So I jumped on BlueSky when it launched and I tried Mastodon, didn’t like that much. Jumped on BlueSky, it was interesting, it felt like Twitter in the old days, but there weren’t that many people there and then something happened. Last month, in the wake of the US election, a lot of people in the arts, who tend to not be super right wing, let’s just say decided that they didn’t want to be left wing.

on the billionaire’s platforms as much. And a lot of us had decided that a while ago, but there was a huge influx of people, coming off Twitter/X, and a lot more, publications jumped over, a lot of writers who had clung on on X for a long time, because they, that’s where they were, and that’s where their community was.

They jumped ship. And 25 million users are now on BlueSky. So I am finding that is where the best conversations are happening. Threads was good for a while, but it is also fairly aggressively using algorithms to downrank things with links in them because they take you off their platform. And BlueSky doesn’t seem to be doing that yet.

I find Instagram almost unusable now because of all the ads. And also just again, me not a visual creator. Enjoy other people’s visual creations, but I’m not a visual creator. So the reason I’m telling you this is I’m going to be posting more on BlueSky these days because I really noticed engagement increasing over the past month or so.

There’s a lot more happening. It’s more easy to find the stuff that you’ve actually followed. The downside when not a lot of people were using it was that there wasn’t a lot going on every time I refreshed and that wasn’t, feeding my little dopamine craving addiction.

So now when I go on, there’s more stuff on there.

More likely to get interactions on my posts, more likely to see interesting posts from people who I used to follow years ago on Twitter. I’ve been finding a whole bunch of the writing community on there. People I haven’t seen for years, I haven’t seen their stuff, like Elizabeth Spann Craig, who always has tons of fantastic links.

People like that who I’m like, oh, where have you been? And the truth is, she’s been on Twitter and I haven’t. She’s on Blue Sky now and the publications are on Blue Sky. There’s a thing on Blue Sky called Starter Packs where people put together basically like lists of accounts that you can follow and you can follow them all with one click and I followed one the other day which was a list of a starter pack for flash fiction publications and oh my heart I’m so happy because now when I open up my little social media feed to get My hit, which I trained myself to do 12 years ago.

I’m not seeing ads for products and services and stuff like that. I’m seeing posts from flash fiction markets who are talking about the stories that they’re publishing. They’re talking about calls for submission. They’re talking about contests that their published stories have been selected, or have won or end of year lists that their stories have been listed in.

And this is what’s filling up my feed. It’s filling up my feed with writerly goodness. And, for now, I’m enjoying that. I’m not encouraging you to get onto Blue Sky and spend all your day scrolling, but if you’re looking for somewhere, if you’re looking to find out where the writing community decamped to, I’m going to suggest Blue Sky.

So it’s bsky. social and you will find me there at my usual story a day handle. So storyaday. bsky. social.

And you can follow me, and you can follow people I follow. Or you can just ignore the whole thing, and get back to your writing. And I will share with you here, and on my blog , and in my newsletter, my emails, I will share with you interesting stuff that I find there.

o that is there’s something that, that’s a service that I offer to you, for free. I troll the, trawl, I should say, not troll, I don’t troll, I trawl the resources and share them with you so you don’t have to, so you can get back to your writing.

00:05:16] Flash Fiction Notes

ne of the things that the flash fiction surge in my feed has reminded me that I have wandered away from flash fiction for a while, because you can’t be doing everything, right?

You can’t do everything, everywhere all at once, despite what the film would tell you ;), I am a huge fan of flash fiction. I love it. This year has been more about writing longer works. So at the beginning of the year I was writing, focusing on novels. In the, for Story A Day May, obviously I was writing flash pieces and short pieces, but I wasn’t really worrying about them, I wasn’t crafting them, I was just writing them as raw material.

Later in the year, I’ve been focusing on the skill of telling a slightly longer story. A short story, but one of those, 4, 000 word short stories, which has never been my natural length. So I’m exploring how to deepen stories in my own writing without weighing them down too much, without turning them, without letting them expand to novel scope, even novella length.

novellas yet, be honest totally honest with you. I don’t really know what goes into a novella. That’s something that’s on my list to investigate, but it’s not something I’ve researched and practiced yet. What I have practiced a lot is flash fiction and short stories and I’ve written five novels.

So those are the lengths that I am familiar with. I won’t say comfortable because I still find novels a real struggle. It’s hard. It’s hard work. I’m not a natural epic novelist. I don’t know if you are. Some people find short stories really hard because they are naturally novelists. So, Fine.

Anyway, flash fiction is on my mind because I’ve been looking at all of these markets that are coming out and it reminded me that I have a flash fiction workshop which I’m really proud of and it’s inside the iWriter course and you can also get access to it if you’re in the Superstars group. But I’m really proud of it because I created this flash fiction workshop which is about 90 minutes long when I was in the thick of just writing short stories.

I’d been doing story a day for about eight years at the time, I think maybe eight or nine years at the time. And I created this workshop which is just everything I’d learned about flash fiction, which is quite a lot. And there’s a question that people have about flash, right? How do you get depth into a story that’s only a thousand words or 500 words or even maybe shorter if it’s microfiction?

And there’s a technique that I uncovered, share in that workshop that I haven’t seen anyone else share. And it’s pretty simple and it’s pretty straightforward and a lot of people have found it quite powerful. And it’s just one of the six different aspects of short story writing that I focus on in the iWriter course, which is guess what what? Open for registration now. Now you can get, you can actually get the iWriter course at any time of the year, but what you can’t get are live meetings with me and a cohort of people who are going through it.

That only happens a few times a year, and it’s coming up in January. If you are interested in learning techniques like flash fiction, so that you can write a story whenever you’re in the mood, and make it something that’s actually, potentially publishing quality for all of these hundreds and thousands of flash fiction markets which are everywhere and relatively easy to get published in.
They’re not easy to get rich from. They are not easy to get published in. You still have to write good stories and you still have to do the work to get your stories out there, but compared to getting a 4, 000 or 6, 000 word short story or a novel to market, getting flash fiction to readers is relatively easier.

There are lots of markets, the work is shorter, the readers at the publication can read your work faster, they can make decisions faster, it gives you successes, it gives you things to put in your portfolio, it lets you experiment with characters and situations and voices that you might not otherwise do.
So this is why I’m always encouraging people to play with short stories, in general and flash fiction in particular. So that flash fiction workshop is in the iWriter workshop which is available right now. I’m also right this week
offering
a bundle to join the superstars community and get the iWriter course at a massive discount.

So if you want six weeks of writing craft and lessons on how to build your writing practice and weekly Q& A meetings with me, I would encourage you to come over to storyaday.org/superstars and that will take you to a page which shows you this offer for joining our Superstars group and getting the iWriter Course, which has that flash fiction course in it.

It has one about writing compelling characters. It has the most popular workshop I’ve ever done, which is called the copycat writing workshop.
It’s
a time tested technique for learning as much as you can about how to write short stories in the shortest amount of time and then implementing it.
And every time I run this course, people love the Copycat Writing Workshop. It’s work. It takes some time. You have to carve some time out of your week. But, people love it. And I use the techniques in it all the time and I had people years later come back to me and say “I was stuck and I went back to the techniques I learned in the copycat writing workshop and I got unstuck and now I have a story.”

I’m just saying, there’s that one, there’s the compelling characters workshop, there’s the flash fiction workshop, which I’m really proud of, and a bunch of other workshops in there which are based on, each week we focus on a different thing.

Conflict is one of them, which is really important.

And you have to get some tension some friction into your stories. So we talk about that. I am a huge fan of disaster movies and adventure stories and heists and spy thrillers and all of those kinds of stories, but that’s not something that you need to be writing in order to get conflict into your stories.
So we, we take a look at that in the course and every week there’s a lesson about how to build your writing practice.

So this is turning into an ad. Sorry about that. Didn’t mean to do that.

[00:11:49] The Power Of Others

Let me talk about another thing that I discovered in my writing week this week. And it’s not really a discovery.

It’s a rediscovery. I’m finding that life is a series of rediscoveries. Sometimes you learn something new. Sometimes you practice something and new lessons come from it.

You would think. Because I do this all the time, right? I’m dedicated to Story A Day. I write about writing. I write my own stories.

I lead a community of writers where we get together and have discussions. We write together. We do workshops together. All of this stuff. This is my gig. This is what I do.

You
would think that every day I would get up Full of the joys, I get to write today! Oh, fantastic! And I would sit down at my desk and the ideas would come and I would have all this mental space and I would just sit here at my nice white desk with my nice white bookshelves behind me and a nice blank wall over there that I can stare at when I’m trying to come up with ideas.

You would think that every day was a joy for me and I was so grateful and the ideas just poured out of my fingertips into my computer right now. Yeah, that’s not how creativity works. And that’s not how being human works. So there are days when I get up and I’m tired and I’m grumpy and I’m convinced that nothing I have ever written has been worth anything at all in spite of everything everyone has told me about my writing.

You’ve had compliments on your writing, right? And it doesn’t actually help when you sit down to write. It can. But it doesn’t always and there are days when you get up and you have a writing session on your calendar And there is nothing you would Less rather do It feels like a physical trial To get to the desk and sit there and open your laptop and type some words It’s ridiculous, but it’s true and it happens to me More than once a week So this week, I turned up anyway.

Because, when you’re trying to pursue something, and you’re striving to improve, you show up anyway, whether you’re in the mood or not. Which is a hard lesson to learn, but you do it. So I showed up anyway, and I was still grumpy. But I showed up for a writing sprint, which is one of the things we do in the Story A Day Superstars group.

We get on Zoom, and we write together. And sometimes we talk, and sometimes we don’t. Nobody talks. And whoever’s hosting the meeting is like, Hey, how’s everyone doing today? And everyone just stares at them. And we go, okay, we’ll just get started then. And some days we talk. We talked a lot on this particular day this week.

We talked about What did we talk about? We talked about the weather. We talked about the easy draw that Sweden got in the World Cup qualifying pools. And we talked about, I don’t know, something else. And just in that five minutes before we started to write, just seeing all these other writers popping into their little Zoom squares just made it all seem more possible for me.
It gave me that kind of peer pressure that says you’re here and these people are here. to do this writing thing. And so you should really do this writing thing. It’s you’re fortunate to be able to do this. You’ve got support. What the heck are you doing being grumpy about it? Which is fine.

You can tell yourself that in your head, but when you have other people around who are like demonstrating it they’re showing you what you’re trying to tell yourself in your head,
It’s harder
to turn away from it, but best of all, because we had that little bit of chit chat, it completely changed my state.

We are social beings. Regardless of how introverted you are, we need people. And just that five minutes of being silly about the weather and laughing about soccer and the fact that most of the people in the room didn’t even know what we were talking about, but two of us did, and, just laughing together and showing up and smiling because other people are on camera and you’re making an effort.

It’s incredibly powerful. So I have no excuses not to write. I have time. I have Sometimes, the motivation. I have works that I’m working on. I have knowledge. I have practiced. I have got my kids off to college. There’s nobody knocking on my door during the day. I have no excuses. And yet, it is still hard.
And the thing that makes it less hard is having other people around who are also doing this.
to just pull
people to just be pull you out of your head for a minute because what we do is so in our heads that it’s dangerous. Our inner voices are so creative and so powerful because this is what we do for fun.

This is what we’ve practiced all our lives is creating vivid, believable imaginary voices. So for us, when our imaginary voices, when our inner voice starts criticizing us and saying, oh you’re so lazy, oh your writing’s terrible, we, they’re convincing. So it really helps to have people around you who will pull you out of that.

It doesn’t have to be other writers. It can be other people who are excelling at something. If you want an accountability group where you check in with other people every week and someone is pursuing a particular area, finishing their first marathon and they tell you about their training practice and you think, oh my goodness, that’s so inspiring that they would be that dedicated.

Somebody shared with me this week pictures of bodybuilders and I did not like the pictures and I was not impressed by that. She was super impressed by the level of dedication because she was in the room with it. The level of dedication in that room was impressive and that I understand. When I go to see musicals I think about the hours and lifetimes of work that the performers on the stage have put in to get there.

The dance classes, the singing classes, the auditions, the endless rejection the being made fun of by their peers, the, all the stuff they went through at school when they were the oddball, and the decision every day. to get up and do this thing where there are no guarantees. And they end up on my stage in Philadelphia, which isn’t Broadway, but it’s a Broadway production, touring production.

It’s still looked down upon by some people because it’s not THE Broadway production. And they’re traveling and they’re sleeping in weird hotels every night and they’re turning up and they are showing all of this effort in order to entertain me. And I really appreciate that and I’m inspired by that.

So
Find what inspires you and hang out with those people. If you can get into a room with people like that, if you can talk to people who are striving, do it. If you don’t have a group like that, you know what I’m going to say. Come and join us in Superstars. I’ve worked hard to make Superstars a place that is welcoming, It gives you opportunities, it gives you time to write, it gives you connection with other writers, it gives you skills that you can join in, and I’m keeping it at a reasonable cost because I want people to stay and work on their writing long term.

And
they do. There are people who’ve been with me since the beginning. There are people who joined this year who’ve just renewed. There are people who are just joining now who are bringing new energy to the whole thing. It’s fabulous. If you’re looking for somewhere where you can be a writer, And not be quite as anonymous as you might be in a Facebook group, or just following people on a social media platform.

Maybe you joined Blue Sky, maybe you love it, but you can still be anonymous and you can still hide there. If you show up inside our community, people will notice you, people will welcome you, people will ask you how it’s going, and then you have to tell them. And then you have to get that validation that comes from talking about your writing with other people.

And it makes you take it more seriously, even for me. And I do this. This is what I’ve dedicated myself to for the past 15 years. It’s still hard. And it’s super hard to do alone. And I am an introvert. And I need a lot of downtime and quiet. And I need space for my ideas, but the thing about being in Superstars is you get that space because you’ve got writing dates that you can turn up for.

And you can just sit there and read. Somebody was reading the other morning when I was on a writing sprint. They were like, yep, I’m just reading this morning. Great. Reading is part of being a writer. So those are my three things from this week.

[00:20:32] Recap

Blue Sky is booming and it’s a, if you’re looking for a social media place where all the writers have gone, that’s where they are. If you’re not, if you don’t enjoy social media, if it makes you feel bad when you get off, if it wastes your time.
time. If it doesn’t inspire you, ignore that part of this podcast.

My flash fiction workshop is inside the iWriter course and I encourage you to have a look at flash fiction as a form. It’s short. It’s punchy. It’s concise. There’s tons of articles. There’s a flash fiction primer at the story a day website.

I’ll put a link to that in the show notes. It’s a really great forum. It gives you that quick hit of finishing things, which if you’re working on a novel, sometimes the idea of finishing something is really appealing and it reminds you that you can do it and it reminds you that stories have an arc.

Stories have a journey to go on and when you’re in the midst of a novel, it can be easy to just be writing scenes and forget about that. So I encourage you to have a look at Flash Fiction as a form. There’s the primer on the website, there’s the iWriter course, all of these things are
in links .

In the show notes so click on them.

And if you’re looking for a way to stay more connected to your community next year, to yourself as a writer, consider the Story A Day Superstars. If you want to talk to me about that, just get in touch, and I will tell you all about it. And we’ll figure out whether it’s right for you.

It’s not right for everyone. It really isn’t. But it might be right for you.
I’m enjoying writing, even though it’s hard. I never regret time spent writing. I hope you find the same thing. I hope you give yourself some of that time this week. And we are starting, in the Story A Day Superstars, we’re starting a book club. On Monday we’re having our first meeting of that. If you join us before then, you can get in on that.

But we’re reading the, this year’s Best American Short Story Collection, which is really good. We’re going to talk about the first four stories in that collection. on Monday, and I’m looking forward to that discussion. It’s something we’ve done a little ad hoc before, but we’re actually going to go through this whole collection and figure out what we can learn, why we like these stories, why we don’t like these stories, and what we can learn from them, what they have in common, all of that kind of stuff.

Studying. Studying the market, studying the state of the art, is so valuable. And when I talk to people about short stories, they often talk to me about, The Lottery by Shirley Jackson, or A Good Man is Hard to Find by Flannery O’Connor. These are classic stories, but they’re not always selling right now.
So it’s really valuable to be reading what’s current. So we’re starting with the Best American Short Stories of 2024 which is literary, largely. And my, my my hope for this venture is that we will venture out into other genres because there’s a robust short story culture out there. in many genres science fiction and fantasy, mystery
all of these areas.

So that’s what we’re up to inside the Superstars this month.

I hope that’s inspired you for this week. I hope you’re writing. If you don’t have time to write much over the holidays, make sure you’re reading. And make sure you’re reading with intention. You can read fluffy stuff, absolutely, but pay attention just to why you’re enjoying it. What is it about everything you read?
I’m not asking you to write a book report, I’m not asking you to analyse anything, but have your antenna out for what you are enjoying and why. Okay, that’s what I have for you this week. I hope you’re having a wonderful December or whatever month it is when you’re listening to this if you’re coming to it later.

And I will be back with you soon with more writing advice and inspiration. And if you need some inspiration, don’t forget there are 15 years worth of writing prompts at the Story A Day website. So go to the click on blog, click on writing prompts, and you’ll see They’re in categories of whether you want to write a character story, whether you want to write a story with a particular type of limit, whether, all kinds of stuff there.

Whether you want to focus on description, point of view. There’s also just like the years of the challenges. So you can go back to 2010 and look at the very first prompts that we did. Or you can look at last year’s prompts. Up to you. If you need some inspiration, something to get you catapulted into your writing sessions this week, 15 years worth of writing prompts there.

Use them. Ignore them, bend them, break them, whatever it takes to get you writing.

Have a great creative week, and most of all, keep writing.

This week I rant about the Best American Short Story Collection…and more

06:00 Read literary fiction if you like it

07:29 Read in your chosen genre

10:38 Using Your Knowledge In Your Writing – How I Wrote A Story

10:38 Using Your Knowledge In Your Writing – How I Wrote A Story

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Coaching with Julie

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20241018Podcast

 Good morning, good evening, good afternoon. Julie from StoryADay here with the podcast. This week I’m thinking about how we read and how we write and how the two are intermingled. I went on a bit of a rant with the StoryADay Superstars this week because the next edition of The Best American Short Stories of the year is just about to come out.

It’s going to be in my inbox on Tuesday. Physical inbox that is. And this is the 2023 edition. The 2024 edition is coming out, which will be full of literary fiction’s best stories as judged by last year, Min Jin Lee. This year it’s going to be Lauren Groff choosing the stories and I have a bit of a love hate relationship with this collection and I’m going to tell you why in a minute. But I’ll be reading it. One of the things that really struck me this week is that we do need to read short stories if we’re going to write them.

And not everybody likes to read short stories, but here’s where my rant about this particular collection comes in. This is my collection. collection I like to rant about. You may have other collections, anthologies, stories that you’ve been told you ought to love that you would like to rant about. The rant I have about this collection is that this is one particular type of short story.

This is a collection of literary fiction. These are the kinds of stories that people write when they take an MFA. program, a master of fine arts and creative writing. The people who write them for the most part are in that same world. They teach at universities, they study literature, they love to pick apart other people’s stories.

It’s art. It’s not commercial fiction. Some of it is enjoyable, but it’s not written the same way that a Marvel blockbuster is written, to entertain the masses. The problem I have with that, not anything to do with the art, the quality of the stories, anyone’s right to write that way, I have no problem with any of that.

The problem I have is that this collection is the most prominent collection of short stories that you will find in a bookstore, if it has any collections of short stories at all. And, many of you may have had the experience I had when I first moved to this country and picked up this collection of short stories probably in 1998, I think that’s the earliest one I have, is 1998, and I picked up that collection and I read it and I didn’t really like very many of the stories.

Because they weren’t written for me. to entertain the way that short stories I grew up reading from a collection more like this, the annual world’s best SF, which were really, science fiction, which were pulp, which were written to entertain. There were magazines of short romance fiction that came out weekly, My Weekly and things like that, which came out in Britain, which I had read short fiction that was commercial and written to entertain.

And these Artistic, beautiful, literary pieces in here written by people considering the nature of humanity and Oftentimes miserable about things that didn’t seem that important to me. Didn’t entertain me and I thought, as you may have thought, Maybe I just don’t like short stories anymore. Maybe I just don’t like short stories.

And the problem I have with this being one of the very few exemplars of short fiction in the world, in bookstores, in mass production, is that a lot of people pick this up thinking, oh, I should read short stories. I’ve been told I should write short stories because they help me master my craft, or I should read short stories because that’s what we read at school, and that’s what I was told was good, good for my brain, good for my soul, good for being part of the literary conversation.

And they pick up this one collection that’s available, and if it’s not to their taste, it’s very easy to rule out the whole form. That would be like listening to one rap song, and it not being particularly to your taste, and then ruling out the whole of hip hop. Listening to one Bach fugue. And saying, I don’t like classical music, when you’ve got Sibelius, and Debussy, and Tchaikovsky, and Madrigals, and all kinds of other instrumental music to choose from.

This collection is the one that everyone reaches for, especially when they get serious about writing. And I will read it. And I’ll read through them all. And I will find four. stories out of the 20 in there that I either feel something about, or that I admire, or that I want to pick apart and figure out how they did that, or that I say, oh I need to read more by that author.

I love short stories and that’s the most I ever find in this collection. There’s maybe one or two authors who I’ll then go and say, They might seek out their other short fiction, I might give them a shot as a novelist. Quite often it doesn’t always work out when short story writers make the transition to novel writing.

It doesn’t always go well, because they like writing short stories but there’s not the same market for short stories. It’s hard to make a living as a fiction writer as it is, and short fiction is even harder to make a living at. So most people transition to writing novels whether they want to or not. So I’ll go and I’ll find some authors from this collection who I like and I might follow them but I might not because I might not actually like the kind of stuff they’re doing if they’re in this very literary tradition which I admire but can sometimes leave me a little cold.

And usually with writers I find that I love the language but I’m also interested in their message and if somebody has a very bleak or bitter or down outlook, I’m less likely to want to read their stuff than if they’ve got a bit of a wink and a nudge and a optimism about humanity. Nothing about the quality of the writing in here.

A lot of literary fiction tends to be a little bleak, trauma informed. And it’s not always what I’m looking for. My point to you is that, if you want to write, Or if you just enjoy reading short stories, do not think that this is the gold standard. The best American short stories or, if you’re somewhere else and there’s a British short stories edition, there’s the Penn Faulkner awards, there’s all of these things that serve to support short story writers because they’re not writing commercial fiction and they can’t really be supported except by literary organizations and awards.

And yes, we should absolutely be supporting art for art’s sake. No argument from me there. But if you’re picking up those collections and reading them and thinking, Ugh, this isn’t for me. That doesn’t mean that you’re not meant to be a writer. It doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with you. It doesn’t mean that you can’t appreciate good writing.

You just may have got to the point in your life where you’re like, I don’t want to read this stuff anymore. I don’t want to read things that I don’t enjoy. Except occasionally I might want to read something to help me understand what the state of the art is.

That’s the next point I want to make. The state of the art in your industry is something that you do need to know. So if you’re writing science fiction and fantasy, get whatever the updated equivalent of this book is. This is the

1989 version of the annual World’s Best SF. And this is a collection of the kinds of stories that were winning Nebulas and Hugos back in 1989. There are updated versions of these, there are digital collections of everything that’s been nominated for prizes in the science fiction and fantasy world. I imagine that there’s similar stuff for everyone. Romance. I’m not sure how much short romance there is out there. I imagine that there’s I know that there’s stuff for mysteries and thrillers. And there’s probably stuff for spy novels. There’s probably something coming for romanticy. There’s certainly anthologies of all of these things.

And we do need to be reading in our Genre, because there are genre expectations which your readers are looking for. If I write a science fiction and fantasy story and make it heavily introspective and concentrating only on beautiful language and don’t include a lot of science fiction or spaceships or futuristic anything.

I’m going to be disappointing the science fiction writers. They may appreciate the beautiful language, but they’ve come for the science in my science fiction. And so there are norms and tropes in every industry, every area of the industry, every genre. And if you want to write short fiction, A, it’s good to know how short fiction differs from novels, which we all read.

And you only really figure that out by reading lots of it. But you don’t have to read stuff that’s not the norm in the genre or mood that you want to be writing in. Where do you find this stuff? You find it in lists of prize winners. If you’re in science fiction and fantasy, there’s things like the Nebulas and the Hugos, which always put out long lists, as well as the short list, as well as the winners.

There are anthologies both the monthly type and the ones that collect the best of a particular. Something with a particular theme, or something with particular types of writers, something wrapped around a particular mood. You can find those kinds of things. There are podcasts, which are, audio periodicals.

Things like Escape Pod, and they have Pseudopod, and various other things in that family, which deal with different types of genres. There are collections like this massive book behind me here, which is the big book of science fiction. There’s the art of the short story. There’s a Halloween one here.

There’s the Oxford book about the American short story. There are all kinds of collections of stories that you can pick up. And you don’t have to love them all. But you do have to familiarise yourself with the norms both because you want to know what readers are expecting and because having that kind of knowledge in your head when you sit down to write makes it so much easier.

I sat down to write a story this week, and I knew I wanted my opening scene to be A bunch of space colonists who’d gone down in a shuttle to a planet. Something had gone wrong, they were stranded, and now they have to get out of this situation. And I knew that I had read a story, once upon a time, that was quite like this.

Similar scenario it’s not A groundbreaking scenario, if we go out to colonize the universe or planets, or if we travel anywhere, at some point somebody’s going to get stuck. There’s going to be a crash, there’s going to be an obstacle. If I’m writing a story, there has to be an obstacle, otherwise it’s not a story, it’s just me writing about people on a planet, or on a journey.

But if there’s no obstacles to their goals, then it’s not, there’s nothing for the story to do. So I pulled down the Big Book of Science Fiction edited by Anne and Jeff Van Dammere because I knew that in there I had read a story and I happened to remember in this case that it was Surface Tension by James Blish, which is going to go in, my story is going to go in a completely different direction from where that story goes, which is a great story and you should read it, by the way, if you like science fiction.

Fascinating story. But I was curious. What does a really good story that has stayed with me for years, living somewhere in the back of my brain, how does a story like that open? What needs to go into an opening of Colony Ship Crashing on a Planet in order to hook me as a reader? So I went back and I read the opening page of Surface Tension by James Blish and I was surprised by how quickly I had all the information I needed to know.

It was a very spare opening with lots of conversation, the characters were set up in very brief interactions among the characters. I had the sense of the setting, I had the sense of the stakes in very few lines. And I don’t know about you, but I tend to overwrite a little. Because I’m a discovery writer and I’m writing to find out who are these people and what does it look like and blah, blah, blah.

And looking at that story, I was thinking, okay, so if I want to write like James Blish, I’m going to write this very spare. I don’t think I’m going to do that, but. Even folding in my preferences for, the level of description I want to do and all that kind of stuff and stake setting, I looked at that and I was like, okay, so in these first few lines, I need to establish all this stuff and it’s okay to leave out these things until later, because, this story that has been stuck in my head for years didn’t tell me Very much about the rest of the crew.

It didn’t tell me very much about the setting. It didn’t set up how they were going to tackle this problem. I was completely surprised on about, halfway down page two, when their solution for the problem was nothing like I thought it was going to be.

Even though I’d read the story I’d forgotten what their solution was going to be. None of that needed to be in the opening paragraphs and I was still hooked because I was sufficiently interested in the characters and their circumstances. So that reassured me as I set out to write my story that I could leave some stuff out.

There were certain things I wanted to include. But everything didn’t have to go into the open, which in turn allowed me to make progress on my story. And it’s going to go in a completely different direction, and it’s going to be nothing like the story that I used as a touchstone, as a reference. But I know I’m on the right track if I open my story in such a way that people know some of the same things that I knew reading Surface Tension by James Blish.

And this is why I encourage you to read widely in the form that you’re writing. If you’re writing romance novels that are in a series that are regency where there are seven sisters and they all need to get married, make sure you’ve read a lot of those, right? Read a lot of those. And you don’t have to be afraid that you’re going to be copying because there are certain.

norms that you need to use and your way of expressing that your preferences, your values, your life lessons are going to be going into those stories. So I just don’t even worry about people saying, Oh, I’ve read something like this before. Yeah, you have, but you haven’t read this before. And people who like particular types of stories and genres, they’re going to be annoyed at you if you’re lazy.

If you write a time travel story and you don’t even acknowledge that there’s a problem with time travel in that if you go back in time and you kill your own grandfather, you don’t exist. You’ve gotta acknowledge those things or write around them or, make it clear that’s not what this kind of story is about.

Don’t just be oblivious of all of the norms in your field. But you do get to use the same kinds of setups because we are humans and we go through life and we are born, we grow, we make friends, we fall out with people, we fall in love, we have children, we get jobs, we die. And amongst all of that there are some common experiences.

So you’re never going to write original. And it can be handy to have stories in your head that serve as touchstones for you. Like when I pulled down that story and looked at how does he open a story about a ship crashing and the survivors have to do something about it. You know I could pull that one down, I could pull down, there’s a C.

S. Lewis story I’m thinking of that has a similar kind of thing. Obviously Ray Bradbury’s got his Martian Chronicles, which is not so much about people crashing, but it is about people isolated on a planet. There’s the Martian, I’m on a Mars kick apparently because I’m thinking about Ken Stanley Robinson’s Mars Trilogy and, the challenges of being in an extremely alien environment.

Those are all things that I could pull off the shelf and look at and think, how am I going to handle this thing, that thing? So reading widely is not optional, because we learn from reading, we get inspired by reading. But it’s also really handy to just have that mental library. It’s not You need to remember every story you ever wrote and I happened to remember the name of this story and think I want to write a story today.

I wanted to start this way. I remember this story and I remember who wrote it and which book it was in, right? And so I went and found it. You don’t even need that. You need to just know that there, you need to be familiar enough with these types of stories that you can either look them up or you can pull them from your mental memory bank and go okay, how does this work?

I am going to encourage you to read widely in whatever area you want to write. And if you don’t like this collection, the Best American Short Stories of whichever year, if you generally find that buying and reading this is a waste of your time because you don’t like these stories, There is nothing wrong with that, you do not need to read them, unless you want to get published in Ploughshares, or Zyzeva, or the Sewanee Review, or one of these publications that they pull from.

Then you need to read this, and you need to figure out what these authors are doing that gets them published in those publications. If these do nothing for you and leave you cold, there’s nothing wrong with you. You’ve got different tastes. You can read them. I read them largely because the writing itself generally provokes a reaction in me.

Sometimes it’s good and I go, oh, how did they do that? And sometimes it makes me go, oh my goodness, I can’t believe somebody thought this was good. Either way, I tend to have a strong reaction and that’s a good thing. Any collection that you read, you’re not going to like everything in it. And you’re going to wonder why the editors selected this story or that story.

If you are in a good place, your reaction is likely to spur you to write something because you’re going to go if that could get published, then I’m going to write something better.

Speaking of which, I’m reading stories from this week’s Story of a Critique Week, and I am. enjoying a lot of very good writing. There’s some stuff that people are asking questions like, I don’t know if this works, and this is really first draft y, and I’m not sure, and there’s some stuff that I’m reading and going, Dang, this is good, this is close to ready.

I’m not quite sure what to say about this. But every meeting that we have, and we had one this morning, people discuss the stories, and the author invariably says, I don’t know what to That’s really helpful. Thanks for pointing out that part that wasn’t quite working. I knew it wasn’t, but I wasn’t sure.

And then everybody smiles and goes, yeah, you thought you were going to get away with that. You’re not, you have to clarify that part. And sometimes people say I knew something wasn’t working, but I wasn’t sure what, and Two or three people in the critique group have been able to say, You lost me here, or I was confused about this, or that seemed to come out of the blue.

And then the writer goes, Ah, got it, I understand. So showing your work to other people is really helpful. And next time I run a critique group, week here at Story A Day, which if you’re listening to this in real time will be February. I generally do them in February, June and October. I encourage you to look out for that, just to get fresh eyes on your writing.

Because if you do want to get published in one of these collections or anywhere, having people who will read your work and do the critical questioning of it that you are too close to it to do is very helpful. I, in the interest of reading a lot, I tend to go through phases where I read a lot and phases where I write a lot.

And then when I’m writing I tend to be pulling and like just getting inspiration from stories I’ve read previously. I have noticed that January tends to be a time when I settle down with a bunch of short story collections and read a bunch. And I’m doing it now as well, largely because This short story collection comes out now and a lot of the prize winners for next year are being publicised.

Things that probably will win prizes next year are being published or hyped or submitted to things so it’s quite easy to find long lists of short stories at this time of year. So I’m going to be doing a lot more reading. So I’m going to be reviving my reading room section at the Story A Day blog. I don’t love reading stories.

I’m thinking I have to write a report on this, so I only post stories that I’ve read that I really liked and have something that I think I can share with you as writers that is useful. So if you come over to the blog and look out for the reading room section you’ll see what I’m talking about.

I’m going to be doing that again. I’m really currently trying to resist the idea of starting a book club around short stories and short story anthologies. I really want to do it but I’m trying to figure out how to fit that in. Because I do a lot of stuff around here already. But I do think it’s so important that we read and discuss what we’re reading and what’s going on.

talking, speaking to us. We do it in the superstars group within that critique week and if you apply and join us just for critique week you’ll get that. I do think there’s a need for us to do it even more. So I’m currently resisting the idea of starting a book club but that usually means that I’m figuring out a way to get over my objections.

So watch out for that and if you’re interested, in that kind of thing, like maybe once a month turning up and talking about a bunch of short stories that we’ve read that month. Send me an email julietstoryaday. org and let me know you’d be interested. It won’t be free because I need to eat but it might be something that’s useful for us to do because as you’ve just heard me talking for 26 minutes it’s really important to read short stories if you want to write them.

And if you don’t think you like short stories, I bet there are short stories out there that you do oh, I meant to go off on a rant about not reading just classic stories or studying classic stories because they’re not what’s getting published now, but that’s essentially what I want to say. Don’t just read classic stories because they’re free and because everybody talks about them.

Yes, they’re part of the tradition, but they’re not what’s getting published now, and I don’t think they would get published now because tastes change. So if I run a book club, it won’t be on classic stories in general. It’ll be on what’s publishing now. That’s what I have for you this week. This podcast has been a little, the timing has been a little sporadic in terms of how many episodes I’m releasing at the moment.

That’s a function of summertime. Summertime has ended, so I’ve also got some interviews lined up. for the next few months. So there’s a new sort of season of this podcast coming and I think you’re going to be hearing from more guests because I don’t want you just hearing from me.

I have lots to say but I’ve said a lot of it. There are 300 episodes of this thing. I’ve said a lot of it. I’m learning more stuff all the time but I think it’s interesting to get guests in here to talk to you as well. So keep an eye out for that. Share the podcast if you’re enjoying it and most of all, Keep writing.

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Good morning, good
evening, good afternoon.

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Julie here from Story a Day and I am
here this week to talk to you about

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some other things that I’ve been
discovering working through the One

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Story September Challenge with the
current group of people going through it.

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Last week we were talking about how
characters react to various stimuli and

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so I was sharing the the things I’ve
learned in my study of the psychology

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of the human being, the human creature.

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And one of the things that’s
really striking is that we are

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not as evolved as we think we are.

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So if you’ve been struggling, if
you’re interested in how to write

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better characters, I’m going to
talk a little bit about that today.

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And I’m also going to talk about
how we can use that knowledge.

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to help ourselves to escape from
the prison of imposter syndrome or

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procrastination or lack of motivation or
starting things and not finishing them.

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All of these complaints that I hear
from people every time I put out

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a survey that asks you what’s, uh,
what you’re struggling with right

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now or any time basically I talk to
writers or, uh, be a writer myself.

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So First, let’s talk about
characters, because it’s easier to

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talk about other people, especially
non existent people, than it is to

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examine our deep, dark, inner selves.

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Here’s how humans operate.

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When something happens,
we react instinctively.

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We react chemically, actually.

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We react chemically.

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Our body floods itself with whatever
chemicals in our, our history of human

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existence has taught us is important.

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This is what we’re talking about when
we say we have the fight or flight

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response or how, you know, your
body thinks it’s going to, if you’re

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stressed, it’s like in olden days when
you used to think you were going to

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get eaten by a saber toothed tiger.

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Uh, actually humans are a lot
older than saber toothed tigers.

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And so you’ve heard those things
too, so many times that they

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just kind of wash over you now.

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But I want you to think about the
fact that we react instinctively.

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And our bodies flood us, flood us with
the chemicals that it thinks we’re

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going to need before any rational
thought has time to form in our brains.

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That’s how your characters react.

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And because we are writing something
that is potentially quite intimate

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with our characters, we can hop into
their heads, we can hop into their

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bodies at any point, and we should be
sharing that stuff with the reader.

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The reader doesn’t really want to know
just what’s happening on the external.

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They want to know what’s
happening inside the character.

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We all consume a lot of television
and movies, I’m going to assume.

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That, in the hands of a really good actor
and a really good director, sometimes

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you get some of that inner journey.

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You see a range of emotions
flicker over the protagonist’s face

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before they do the right thing.

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What’s happening, and what’s happened
with that actor and director is probably

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lots and lots of conversations about
exactly how the character wants to react

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and what they’re doing to suppress that
initial desire, and whether they’re

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going to give in to that initial desire.

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And the fact is, that’s what’s
happening in every person all

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the time when something happens.

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We have this instinctive
reaction, and then we have the

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conditioned response response.

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And the Conditioned Response, the first
response that we consciously have,

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even subconsciously, is the Conditioned
Response from when you were a kid, and

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what the people who raised you, and the
people around you, who mattered to you,

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taught you, was an acceptable solution to
a situation, or reaction to a situation.

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So, if you grew up in
a house that was very

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ebullient, whether that’s for good or
ill, if people, if your character comes

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from, say, an Italian American family,
where everybody argues and shouts and

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then it all blows over in a few minutes,
as I am led to believe, then that’s going

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to be how they think it’s okay to react.

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And that’s going to be the first
reaction they reach for beyond

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the fight or flight reaction.

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Um, the, the urge to punch
someone is fairly deeply buried.

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When somebody crosses you, the urge to
like, if they come at you physically,

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the urge to come back at them physically
is fairly deeply in us instinctually.

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Your childhood will have taught you
whether or not it’s acceptable to

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let that instinct go or whether you
need to, like, sit on your hands.

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Beyond that, as you, as your character
lives through life and goes outside

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the world of their family, their, their
childhood environment, they’re going

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to be in other environments where they
will learn other ways of being, and

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they will learn other societal norms.

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When you go to school, it’s very much not
okay to punch someone when you’re in the

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classroom, even though in certain eras
and certain places it might still have

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been fine to scrap on the playground.

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So you have to learn, as a human
being, to suppress instincts in layers.

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As you become, say, this character
who we’ve talked about comes

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from a very voluble, very, very
volatile family, where it might have

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been okay to punch your brother.

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And then they go to school and discover
it’s okay to punch them, but only on the,

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on the playground when nobody’s looking,
certainly not in front of a teacher,

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and certainly not in the classroom.

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Then they grow up and
they become a lawyer.

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for people who may still do the punching.

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But the lawyer themselves has to
have these layers of civility and

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refinement, which they, they drape
over everything that they learned.

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And so if you’re writing this character,
they’re probably not punching anyone

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anymore, except in very extreme
circumstances in very dark alleys.

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Which means that in a situation of
high stress when someone comes at

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your lawyer verbally they are going to
react with that primal urge to punch.

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The little kid in them is
going to want to punch.

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The kid who went through school and
who’s learned to suppress that urge

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until nobody’s looking might kick in.

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And then the kid who went through law
school and learned to suppress all

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of that and come at them verbally is
going to kick in, maybe, on their best

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day, in the best of circumstances.

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So that’s a lot of emotion.

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Those are a lot of stages
that your character is going

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to go through in an instant.

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That’s how the human mind
brain nervous system works.

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If you’re not showing us any of
that, how are we supposed to know

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what your character’s going through?

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If they just quirk an eyebrow or smirk,
what does that tell us about what’s

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You’ve got, uh, you’ve got like a
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could be running through You’ve got
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Your character can go all the way
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come back with a witty rejoinder.

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Or they can take an earlier off ramp
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out or they can, you know, have some
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wanting to go at the other person and
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Or you can let them.

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Rip and you can let them have their
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in the family where somebody would
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let’s you know, let’s break it up.

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You could let them go even further
You have all of those things to

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go through emotionally inside your
character Before you even start

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thinking about how to show that on the
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So We go from a very primitive response
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hard to get over to the civilized response
that we have layered on as adults that

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makes the, the, the actions that we
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Part of the journey throughout a story
for your character, part of the internal

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journey of any character, is probably
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what society will accept as civilized and
what your character really wants to do.

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It’s probably a journey between, journey
about, or a balancing act about them

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overcoming their instincts and deciding
how far to go towards what society

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wants and what feels good in the moment.

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And then, of course, you get to
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that your character has laid over
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their school and their environment.

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All of these things, all of these, these,
all of this conditioning that has happened

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to them, along with the things that they
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into the world they’re in, some of that
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You think about a romantic partner
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They have learned all these layers of
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some of that stuff they shouldn’t have.

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And they’re going to have
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And it’s always going to be a fight
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the intellectual decision about
what’s acceptable, and then perhaps

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a further intellectual decision.

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decision about what’s acceptable now,
in this moment, for me, unlearning

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the stuff that I learned before.

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Humans are complicated and it
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What can you put into your writing to show
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Not all the time, just some of the time.

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When are the good moments
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Is your character always going to react
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Is that always the right
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How are they going to feel if they let
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How are they going to feel if they stay
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Which brings me to you, the writer.

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As you go through your writing
process, you too are human.

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You too are dealing with
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to your writing.

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It seems ridiculous, but it’s
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When you’re writing and things get
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You go through an instinctive reaction,
you go through your conditioned reaction,

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and then maybe, if you’re paying
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reaction where you say, I know this
feels a little uncomfortable at the

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moment, but I’m going to be, I’m going
to be cool about it, and I’m going

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to look at my work dispassionately,
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working and where it’s not working.

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Now, on the journey from the ugh, this,
this feels hard, to no, I’m going to

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be dispassionate and, and sensible,
and I’m going to work on this like

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a scientist and tweak my writing.

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On the journey, from one to the
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that I can’t possibly know.

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Because I don’t know whose
voices are in your head.

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I don’t know what you were
conditioned to believe was acceptable.

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I don’t know what you’ve
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And when people say to me I’m suffering
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I know they are beautiful writers.

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When people tell me they can’t finish
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what happens at the end of their story.

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I know there’s something going on in that
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to believe certain things area.

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Maybe you were conditioned to believe
that you shouldn’t take this much

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time away from your family to write.

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Maybe.

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Is that acceptable?

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Is that appropriate for
this moment in your life?

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Is that lesson that you learned when
you had a tiny baby who really did need

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you to be there every second of the day
appropriate now that your children are

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adults or now that your parents are gone
or now that, uh, you know, there’s other

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younger people in your community who can
do some of the things you used to do?

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Does the fact that you’re a good
girl and you never swear mean

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that your characters can’t curse?

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And if it makes you uncomfortable,
how are you going to deal with that?

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If you were the smart kid at school
and everything came easily to you and

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you were able to dodge the classes
that were hard I’m not saying that I

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got out of gym by saying I had singing
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If you were able to dodge the
difficult things early in life

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Or you just a lot of stuff came
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Do you have You the conditioning that
says hard things are to be avoided.

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Or do you have the ability to push
through that and get your intellect

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involved and say, Yeah, I’m not
very good at this, but that’s okay.

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I can, it doesn’t mean
I’m not good at living.

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It doesn’t mean I’m worthless.

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It means I didn’t write this correctly
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with it and I might have to ask for
help and that might be uncomfortable.

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We have to work through our instinctive
reactions, just like our characters do.

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conditioned responses and ask

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whether those are still appropriate.

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and ask if that’s actually appropriate.

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Is it appropriate to say, oh
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novels, therefore I should just not.

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Or, is it acceptable to say, Oh well, I’m
not very good at writing novels, I need to

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figure out why, and what’s tripping me up.

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Because this is quite a complex thing, and
I bet I’m not not good at writing novels,

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I bet I don’t have a strong sense of
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in the scenes in the middle after the
inciting incident and before the climax.

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And maybe I need to go and study
some story structure from someone

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who really gets this and speaks about
it in a way that I can relate to.

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I know, writing’s fun, right?

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Writing’s a thing you enjoy.

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It’s supposed to be fun,
it’s supposed to be easy.

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Uh uh.

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It’s not supposed to be easy.

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If it was easy, it
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You may have to.

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do some work on, on the
bit between your reaction

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and the intellectual response you actually
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And this all happened because I
promised to share with a bunch of

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people what I had learned in my
writing practice and study about the

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difference between show and tell.

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That writing advice that says
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A.

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Not always true.

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Wow, is there a lot to explore in there.

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So we’ve spent this month in the One Story
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I got to delve into human psychology
and human physiology in order to

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allow all of us to write a book.

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Better characters who react more
realistically and who have depth.

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Even in short stories you can do
this stuff so easily, not easily,

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you can do this stuff so quickly
and with so few words that you can

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do this in a short story if you
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So I delved into human psychology,
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I ended up delving into personal
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and help some other people write stories
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting
to please people, especially if

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you can use it to keep learning.

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This life, I think, is a lifelong learning
project, and writing is demanding.

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Because it demands that we look
at what, the human condition.

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So simply looking at a technique
like Show Don’t Tell has allowed

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me to go so deep this month.

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with a writing practice.

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It’s allowed me to examine why I sometimes
resist writing, even though I love it.

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It’s allowed me to examine whether or not
the polite society rules I was raised with

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are serving me, whether I need to be quite
that polite, or whether it would be better

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for me as a human being in this one life

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to react differently to some things.

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It’s allowed me to examine whose
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they’re worth listening to.

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It’s allowed me to build confidence.

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And I think it’s doing the same for
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Never think that your
writing is a waste of time.

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Your writing is a personal development
project that trickles out into the world.

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That filters out into the world
around you, to all the people

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that you come in contact with.

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Working on a skill, or a craft
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is never a waste of time.

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It will teach you so much about people,
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So, I commend you for being a
writer, And for doing the hard

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work, as well as the easy work.

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And if you’re not always finding
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finding it easy or having it feel like
fun, I heard an athlete talking about

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this recently and they said that their
coach had told them it’s the rule of

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thirds, a third of the time it’s going
to feel easy and joyous and You’re in

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the flow and it’s going to feel great.

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A third of the time, it’s
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And a third of the time, no matter
what you do, it’s going to feel

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like you’re failing because you just
can’t get, you can’t perform at your

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best level, you can’t, you can’t
go faster in art, you can’t meet

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the times that you wanted to meet.

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You’re just, you just
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But as long as that’s a third, and
a third of the time, you’re loving

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it, and the middle third is work.

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That’s about right.

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And I found that very encouraging.

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Worthwhile things aren’t always easy.

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We can look at ways of making them more
easy, we don’t need to make them harder.

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But there are going to be days where it’s
just not happening, it’s just not coming.

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But those days are not wasted.

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Those days are building strength,
building persistence, building grit,

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building patience.

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And for a writer, they’re probably
you absorbing experiences, noodling

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things in the back of your mind
where you’re not thinking about

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them, watching the world, watching
people, seeing how they really work.

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You don’t need to be turning out
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So I encourage you to think about
deepening your character’s reactions

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Letting the reader pause and go through
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And I also encourage you to pause and
examine your own reactions when you come

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up against something that’s a little hard.

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In part, so you can replicate it on the
page, but in part, so that you can get

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to the intellectual analysis part of it
and figure out if there’s anything you

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need to change and What that might be.

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And there’s no rush, because
this is a lifetime project.

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That’s what I have for you this week.

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If you’d like to join the One Story
Challenge, you can join it at any time by

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coming to StoryADay.org/one-story-signup
keep writing.

This week’s StoryADay podcast is about loving your writing and sharing the love! Yes, there is stuff about marketing your writing in here, but don’t let that put you off.

CHAPTERS

00:00 StADa321 – Being You

01:09 The One-Story Challenge: Show, Don’t Tell Edition

08:07 Marketing

LINKS:

The One-Story Challenge – Show Don’t Tell Edition:

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Elizabeth Wheatley’s Books:

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Other Help for Improving Your Writing Life

Download the Short Story Framework:

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Take the 3-Day Challenge

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Sign up for the StoryAWeek Newsletter

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Take the I, WRITER Course

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Join the Superstars Group

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Coaching with Julie

Writing Coaching with Julie

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Transcript

StADa321 – Being You

[00:00:00] Good morning. Good evening. Good afternoon, Julie, from StoryADay here. And I have a couple of things I want to talk to you about this week. Both of which are topics of conversation in the story of the community. And the first one. Is to do with getting the writing done and the craft of doing the writing.

[00:00:21] And I’m going to talk to you about that and the second things a little bit about marketing your work, because there are so many people in this community who’ve been writing for awhile. Now, storyADay May has generated a lot of content. And it’s been running for 15 years and people who started writing before it even started.

[00:00:40] And who’ve been consistently coming back and writing every year. They have generated a lot of material. They’ve learned a lot. They’ve got some great stuff and a lot of them are at the stage of getting their work out into the world. A lot of people who are getting their work out into the world are drawn to this community because of how seriously we take the writing,

[00:00:58] and I suspect the, how seriously we don’t take ourselves, it’s probably a bit of a draw as well. So when talk about both of those things today, but I’m not going to go too long, so let’s get to it.

[00:01:09] First of all. As I record this, it is September and I want to make a plea. If you haven’t jumped into the one story challenge yet this month. It is not too late. We spent the first week drafting a new story for people to play with.

[00:01:27] You could bring a story you’ve already got, and you could review the materials I provided in week one in no time at all. Generate a new story. If you need to, or bring something that you’ve already been working on. This week, we’re getting into the Show, don’t tell lessons of the challenge. So my promise with this one story challenge was that we would take the whole month to work on a single story. You could start from scratch and write the story.

[00:01:54] Then we would delve into this one particular craft technique that gets talked about all the time and drives people crazy. It’s really effective. It’s really powerful, but it’s become one of those. Things that people see and things that people beat you over the head with in critique groups, if you’re not showing you’re telling and what does that even mean?

[00:02:17] So that’s what we’re talking about in the one story challenge. We’re going from the first week where we’ve been drafting stories to. This week where we’re looking at what. Is really meant. By show don’t tell so on Sunday, I’m going to release that lesson. And if you haven’t jumped into the challenge yet, this is perfect timing.

[00:02:38] Jump into the challenge. It is currently priced at $30 for the month and it will never be this price. Again, I tell you that because I’ll be able to get a ton of work into it, and I’m really proud of it. And as I go through this I’m trying to make sure that the information is clear and doled out in a way that is bite size, fun size. And that you get to go through it. While also having a life. While also having obligations and maybe you’ve got kids going back to school.

[00:03:07] Maybe you’ve got parents who need driven to medical appointments. Maybe you’ve got birthday parties coming up, whatever. It is that you have going on in your life. I’ve developed this challenge, which is very unlike story a day may, which is very like, hit the ground running and writes already everyday. This is a kinder, gentler challenge.

[00:03:24] This week we’re going into what really is. Show don’t tell anyway. And we’re doing exercises that will let you take parts of your story and try out different. Versions of show don’t tell because there’s lots of ways that you can apply that advice. Within a story. And there are places where you shouldn’t apply that advice.

[00:03:49] So we’re talking about that this, the first part of that this week, w we’ll try things out, And the opening or in a scene in the middle, I’m not giving away any spoilers, but that’s what we’re going to be working on this week. Every day. There’ll be an exercise that we’ll let you tweak and play with this technique and see. What it can do for your story and what you like about it and what you dislike about it.

[00:04:09] And just be able to talk about it, defend your work in critique groups in a more confident manner. Because it does get overused next week, we will look at more holistically at the whole story. Not next week. The third week of September. We’ll look more holistically at the whole story. And we will look at ways to see. What proportion of showing and telling you should be doing.

[00:04:34] And we are looking at this from a short story perspective. So although these skills. Can. Amplify and be used in a novel quite often, I find that in writing classes, techniques, when they are talked about from a novelist point of view, Don’t miniaturize. So we’re starting. From the point of view of a short story writer and saying, yeah, but how could I do this in a short story? And so that’s really what we’re going to be looking at the third week of September. And everything that we learn in practice can of course be expanded.

[00:05:10] And I think that’s a little easier than trying to shrink things down and take novel techniques. And. And make them work for short fiction. So that’s what’s going on in the one story challenge.

[00:05:30] And the fourth week. Is going to be, when I focus on helping people get the story really finished, but also on one other thing that everyone needs to do, if they’re going to.

[00:05:45] Do this for the long haul. If you are going to make consistent progress, there is a way to, there’s a thing you need to do. At the end of projects. Which will make it more likely that you’re going to keep working without feeling burned out and stay excited about the project that you just finished, actually finished projects.

[00:06:08] All of that can suck. So we’re going to talk about that in week four of the one story challenge as well. So if that sounds good, come over to story. A date.org forward slash one story challenge. Nope, that’s not right. One story, sign up. I’ll put the link in the notes. There’s hyphens in between those words. I will put that into the show notes so that you can come over and join us because you probably have a story already that you can use.

[00:06:34] You can jump in and use these techniques on. So if you weren’t with us for week one, It doesn’t matter, you can review that material, but bring a story that you’ve already started. When I first run a workshop. Like this that’s exactly what I encouraged people to do was to bring a story that was already. In progress.

[00:06:52] So nothing lost. If you haven’t joined us for week one, you’ll still have access to those materials, but you will get the show. Don’t tell lesson this week, then next week you’ll get the. The making a scene. Version of the next step of that. And then the week four will be all about putting the story to bed. And staying enthusiastic about it.

[00:07:13] So hopefully I’ve intrigued you, but not giving away too much because I want you to join us. I don’t want you to just think about it, don’t just think, oh, I’ll learn that later. Because take talk, Time’s moving on. Life keeps passing us by. And if you start today, you’re going to be so much better in two years than if you start in two years.

[00:07:31] So you’re not.

[00:07:35] You’re not standing still.

[00:07:40] I hate to say this. But if you’re not writing. You’re getting rusty. So I put together these challenges to stop you from suffering the feet that I suffered after years of not writing. Creatively. And discovering that it was so hard to get going again. So I put together all these challenges to give you little ways to get back to your rating. Because it makes you happy.

[00:08:02] It makes you more who you are. So anyway, enough about that, you’ve heard me say that stuff before.

[00:08:07] Marketing

[00:08:07] Let’s talk, marketing everyone’s favorite topic. One of the things that’s come up in the StoryADay Superstars group. Is the idea of doing author newsletters. So we’ve been talking a lot about that. And I’ve been talking a lot to a group of entrepreneur, friends of mine about how to. write. Stories in newsletters and emails and marketing materials, that don’t necessarily involve you exposing your entire personal life. Now. We as writers. Have such a leg up on, on people who are just like, I want to be in business and sell a thing. But they understand they need to do marketing.

[00:08:51] They understand they need an email list. They understand that they need to be posting on social media, engaging their followers and having an avatar and all of that stuff. They understand it, but they don’t necessarily have the writing background to make it work. So it’s a harder lesson for me to teach them.

[00:09:08] But if I tell you. That you can write a short story. About. You know your interaction with the barista today. Or about a D something that happened in history or something that you researched for your novel, you get it, you understand, you could put together like a paragraph about that stuff. You could make it compelling.

[00:09:30] You know how to do that. You just need, I think remaindered as everyone does that when people talk about marketing and putting yourself out there, It doesn’t have to be all of you. It has to be the things that you notice. The things that come out of your brain, the things that matter to you. In your fiction writing

[00:09:54] your values come through. Your preoccupations come through. Your passions come through. If you think that, there’s the life is a zero sum game, that comes through in all of the choices that your characters make, all of the outcomes of your novels. If you think that by giving you receive then, and that you expand the pie by giving away tasters, then that comes through in your stories, every choice your characters make your protagonist, probably not your antagonist, but your protagonist is going to make those kinds of choices.

[00:10:33] It’s. It’s really hard to hide your values from your fiction. When we talk about being authentic in your marketing it’s not that you have to share pictures of your family or talk about where you went on vacation or talk about your politics or your religion or any of those things, but by sharing things that you’re interested in things that make you laugh, things that make you, go, huh? You will draw people to you who like the stuff that comes out of your brain?

[00:11:07] And I have a very specific reason I’m talking about this this week because it happened to me this week. I’ve been following a writer on Instagram called Elizabeth Wheatley, for a while. And I’ve been following her largely because she does a very silly thing. She has a character. That she has created called Book Goblin. Who she talks to.

[00:11:32] It’s one of those Instagram things where, the same person is playing both characters, but she talks to Book Goblin, Book Goblin is very obsessive about books. And so she’s used Book Goblin to talk about. Controversies that have come up in her zone, which is a fantasy, I think like romance/fantasy and there’s various. Overlapping genres there. But she’s used conversations with Book Goblin to , talk about control of receipts that have popped up.

[00:11:57] She’s used it to talk about her upcoming releases. She’s used it to talk about why you can’t find her books on Amazon or at least not when they’re first released. So anyway, I follow her largely because I saw a Book Goblin sketch and I thought it was funny. And then I started to like all of the stuff that she was posting. And. Eventually, when she announced a new book, I thought, you know what? I have had so much entertainment from her,

[00:12:26] I think that the brain that created a Book Goblin, probably has some other characters in it that I might enjoy. So even though fantasy is not my first love, and that is definitely what she’s writing. I thought, you know what. I’ll give it a try. So the new book coming out, I thought, you know what, I’ll go back to the first book in the series. I will read I’ll by it.

[00:12:48] I’ll read it. And as aforementioned, she doesn’t Promote her books through Amazon, barnes and noble and things like that. She sells them directly from our website, which I can respect. Okay. So I went over to the website. The first book in the series is $7, which is more than you would charge if you were slavishly. following the advice of all the indie author. experts out there who tell you, the first book in the series should be free or it should be 99 cents.

[00:13:14] And then you should put everything on Kindle unlimited so that people can get it. And. There’s so much advice out there and she’s not following any of that. She’s doing her own thing. And so I was like, oh, cool. That’s interesting. What, $7 for a book, but I might not like, but I’ve already been following her for awhile and consumed $7 worth of, value from what she’s given me.

[00:13:36] So I’ll buy the book. And I’ll I probably won’t like it, but I’ll buy the first book and we’ll see.

[00:13:43] I like the book. My instinct that the person who showed up.

[00:13:49] bravely, boldly and authentically on Instagram and created this book, Goblin Character, my instinct that this person probably had other characters in their brain that I would enjoy hanging out with was absolutely spot on. Now, understand. I am not saying, that you need to start recording videos that you need to have a character that you need to do sketches any of that stuff you absolutely do

[00:14:17] not. What I am seeing. Is that if you can find a way to show us a little bit of your author self. That part of you that is. Uniquely you, The part of you that goes down rabbit holes. Researching the weaving methods of Flanders textile merchants staff in the 14 00s. And spends three days reading about warp and weft and dye stuffs. You can share some of that stuff with us.

[00:14:57] You are not going to appeal to everybody. You are going to appeal to people who are out there. Looking for someone who is that type of quirky they don’t even have to be interested in weaving, but they’re looking, people are scrolling through social media and they’re looking for something that makes them feel a connection.

[00:15:19] And if you show that level of authenticity, show your weird, show your obsessions. Don’t tell us about your kids and your holidays and what you had for lunch unless that is your obsession and you don’t mind sharing those things. But if you collect vintage high heels show us those. It doesn’t really matter if it’s connected to what you’re writing, because if I like your brain. I’m probably going to like your stories.

[00:15:50] So that’s my message today. Is that Authenticity willl draw the right people to you, and it will repel the wrong people away from you. And anyway, I really have to go now because I have to find out what’s going on with Amira and Daindreth, and I need to read my book. Book. BOOK!

[00:16:19] Keep writing.

Sometimes it seems like success comes easily to other people when it feels so elusive to us. But there are secrets to making it more likely you’ll be one of those success stories, and that’s what I’m talking about this week on the StoryADay Podcast. Whether you’re a writer or not, I think you’ll like this one!

LINKS:

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 The Engine Of Success for Writers

01:13 Things I Learned About Motivation, from My Kids

03:49 Our Inner Writer Is Just A Kid

07:36 The Characteristics of Resilient People

10:46 Steal the Strategies of Resilient People

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318 Find Wonder Everywhere

[00:00:00] Good morning. Good evening. Good afternoon, Julie, from story a day here I am just back from my travels. I got to go to Scotland again last week to visit family for very happy reasons. My parents celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary. Congratulations, you guys.

[00:00:14] But I wanted to talk this week about. Something that comes very easily when you’re traveling and you’re in a new environment, which is seeing the wonder in everything, seeing the novelty in everything, seeing the world anew.

[00:00:31] It’s something that is easy to do when you’re away. It’s harder to do when you’re in your everyday routine.

[00:00:38] But I think that’s one of the gifts that we have as writers. We are endlessly curious. And sometimes we just need a little remainder to wake that curiosity up. And. I don’t know about you, but when I’m thinking about. writing a product, for example, writing a story that I want to send to a particular market. Or writing a novel for a particular audience or in a particular genre. It’s very easy to get overwhelmed by the expectations of the outcome. And to try and live up to our expectations.

[00:01:17] And that can take a lot of the fun. Out of the process of writing.

[00:01:22] Whereas.

[00:01:24] Discovering new stuff is really fun. And I’m going to encourage you to try and get some of the fun back into your writing by introducing some more fun into your life this month, this week, this month. And so for example, Last week, when we arrived at London Heathrow to change for our plane to Glasgow, we discovered when we turned on our phone and all the other phones on the plane beeped as well, Or at least half of them did, that’s our flight to Glasgow had been canceled and in their infinite wisdom, British Airways had decided that, . Telling us that we were going to rebooked on a flight. Two days, hence was an acceptable solution. So after some. Nervous laughter and a consultation with the people who they let us talk to.

[00:02:19] We weren’t allowed to talk to the actual help desk people, but the bouncers who were keeping us away from them. We said, what are we supposed to do? And they laughed and said, you could take a train. And we laughed because what else are you going to do? And said, I actually, you’re right,

[00:02:33] we could. So we did, because apparently you can just jump on the underground at Heathrow and go into the city and catch the train to Glasgow. So we did that. And it was great because we got to then instead of seeing the insides of Terminal Five and the jet way and another airplane and seeing, A little bit of London as we took off.

[00:02:53] And a little bit of Glasgow as we landed. We actually got to troll right through the middle of the country. We went up the west coast from London. We went up the west side of the country, of the UK. So skirting Wales and going through the industrialized north with their, the wonderful old factories and all brick chimneys.

[00:03:13] They’re few and far between though, but you still can see the origins of industrial revolution era towns nestled in river valleys. We got to see the flat pastoral land of the south of England. We got to see the hills of the Lake District, we got to see the forests of the Borders of Scotland. And then all of a sudden there we were, heading into Glasgow. In all its industrial revolution, era majesty and getting off at my, one of my favorite train stations, Glasgow Central, which is near and dear to my heart with soaring roofs, and just a hustle and bustle of people. And so it was a, it wasn’t a terrible outcome for us to have to take that. And as we were whizzing through the countryside.

[00:03:58] Every time I looked out of the window, it was a different landscape. So the reason I was thinking about that is that I was, following along with people who are heading to Glasgow this week for World Con, which is a big science fiction and fantasy convention, and somebody else was taking the train from London to Glasgow. And they posted a picture of their laptop screen on which they were watching the classic SciFi movie, The Matrix, and, Judgey McJudgerson here. I was just in my head I was just screaming, look out the window.

[00:04:29] Obviously you’re welcome to do whatever you want when you’re traveling And if watching The Matrix got them in the mood for their scifi con good for them. But I having just done the trip, I was like, ah, look out the window. You’re missing so much. And it does strike me as ironic actually that they were watching The Matrix and missing The real world going by on the window outside, but that’s, that’s a topic for another day.

[00:04:51] So what is what. What struck me. And then as I spent the next few days, visiting places that were both familiar and unfamiliar to me, because I grew up there. And I’ve been gone for a long time. I was appreciating things that other people weren’t even looking at. I was taking pictures of the purple loose strife, which is everywhere on the verges and the sides of rules on the sand dunes,

[00:05:17] At this time of year. It’s an upright green plant that grows in very dry conditions and it’s it’s a weed basically, and it’s gorgeous this purple flowers that break out everywhere and create great big swaths of purple in the land.

[00:05:32] And I was bending down and taking pictures of the low growing purple heather.

[00:05:37] And I was, listening to the seagulls and not seeing them as a pest because I just don’t see them very often anymore.

[00:05:45] And watching the patterns that the water makes in the edge, the wet edge of the sand as as the tide comes in and out. And as adults, we don’t always get time to stop and appreciate those kinds of things.

[00:06:01] And yet the people who do, people like the poet, Mary Oliver, people, poets in general… one of the reasons that people are drawn. To poetry is because there are people who make the choice to stop and look and observe and make connections between the running water and something in our everyday lives as writers.

[00:06:30] We need to actually create space and time.

[00:06:35] Too. Just be. In the world. And observe.

[00:06:40] And process. And noodle.

[00:06:42] And sometimes that means stepping away from product writing.

[00:06:48] In May, I encourage you to start and complete a story every day to get in the habit of creating complete works, things that can be turned into products, something for someone else to consume.

[00:07:01] But sometimes we just need to practice.

[00:07:03] I’ve been watching a lot of baseball this year. And , we see the players come out onto the field in their nice uniforms and their colorful socks and we see them step up to the plate once, once in a while.

[00:07:18] And then they go and sit down for a bit and it looks like a kind of an easy job, but if you watch what they do before the game, they turn up early. And the drill, they just stand there, whacking balls. They work out in gyms, they practice, sprinting, the practice throwing and catching, different different kinds of Keynes of throws different positions, different. place to try and catch different people out. None of that is on display for the audience. And yet if they didn’t do that work, what did show up at game time would be a sloppy mess. So we need to remember that sometimes going for a walk or a drive, or watching a, documentary or reading a non-fiction book or listening to a conversation someone else’s having in a coffee shop and then creating space to just noodle on that.

[00:08:16] Just doodle, just create little word salads for ourselves that aren’t necessarily part of the product that we are going to put out, is vital. This is a vital part of writing. Adding new words to a manuscript is wonderful. But celebrate the team that you spend

[00:08:39] doing things that feed your writing.

[00:08:42] My theme here at StoryADay this month is Triumph, and I’m going to be talking a lot about things to celebrate, both in your own writing in other people’s writing, in the writing world in general, in the reading world. Because that celebration of all the things that are good and the celebration of things that are curious and unusual and the connections that we can make, celebrating that stuff. Is what keeps us energized.

[00:09:15] It keeps us curious.

[00:09:17] If you can, this week, I am going to encourage you to try and vary your routine. Celebrate this world we live in and this existence we have. We don’t always feel like doing that. There’s plenty of bad in the world, and looking at that is important so that we can challenge it and fight it, but also celebrating the things that make us go, Ooh, Is really important as well.

[00:09:49] So this week I challenge you to very routine and find wonder wherever you are. You don’t need to get on a plane and travel to another country to see your world anew.. Take a new route home from work and really notice your surroundings.

[00:10:07] Go to a different grocery store and try and find all your usual stuff. See what they’ve got this different.

[00:10:14] This Week’s Assignment

[00:10:14] Wind your windows down on the way home and listen. Smell. Feel the air around here. Is it warm? Is it called? What smells can you smell better yet? Get an, a bike and cycle and remind yourself that travel doesn’t always need to be insulated and isolated from the world around you.

[00:10:37] Take off your headphones and listened to the world. As you walk through it.

[00:10:41] If you’re feeling brave, talk to a stranger. You don’t have to have anything interesting to say, ask them about themselves. Try to find out what it is that gets them excited. Try and find that one thing that lights them up. One guy I knew that the thing that lit him up was British empire era. armies And their equipment and their campaigns.

[00:11:03] And although I wasn’t terribly interested in them, it’s so fun to find somebody else’s passion and then step back and watch them late up. And as a writer, you get to watch how it changes their whole physicality when someone is talking about the thing they’re excited about.

[00:11:18] If you don’t want to talk to somebody order a different type of coffee in the coffee shop while you’re there listening to people and then try to describe The taste, the smell, the feel the The heat of it, in words on the page.

[00:11:35] Visit a museum that you have never been to since a school trip took you there, or since your last out of town visitor came.

[00:11:43] If you live in Middleton, Wisconsin, there’s a National Mustard Museum there. Have you been there?

[00:11:48] Another way that you can find wonder is to simply wander the Nonfiction. stacks at your local library and pull a book off the shelf. I did that recently and it was great fun.. It challenged me. And it sparked all kinds of ideas in my head, not entirely related to the content just related to sitting there reading.

[00:12:07] I just grabbed a book. Sat down at a table. And spent 15, 20 minutes leafing through the book, and thinking about the type of person it was intended for the type of person you would have to be to write this book. The type of person who would spend time creating the intricate diagrams that this book was explaining. Just grab any nonfiction book off the stack and leaf through it.

[00:12:35] You’re not attempting to learn anything, you’re attempting to spark your imagination.

[00:12:41] Or simply stop and look, as I did at the weeds. Growing on a free growing patch of earth Somewhere near you right now. How many different types of plants are there. Are there flowers. Are they tiny? Are they huge. How much dirt are they growing in? What kind of insects can you see in there? Are they growing up through the cracks in the pavement, how are they doing that? Are they growing in what used to be a pristine lawn? Why is it no longer pristine? What kinds of insects feed on these flowers? What if you were insect sized, what would you make of these weeds?

[00:13:23] So many questions will start to pop up in your head. Don’t repress any of them. You don’t need to create an, a thing from this. Once you have done this exercise , when you have gone out into the world and trying to find some wonder in it, come over to the blog and leave me a comment.

[00:13:43] I’ll leave the link in the. In the description of the podcast and you can come over. It speeds. It’s just storyaday.org/find-wonder-everywhere is link and leave me a comment and let me know how you find wonder or how you found wonder this week?

[00:13:59] I’m not encouraging you to come up with a different novel idea every day or a different short story idea every day, but just to help you come up with things that spark your imagination and a low you, a little space to play with words.

[00:14:18] If you have a copy of, or are signed up for the story of the challenge handbook from earlier this year. You’ll find 31 of these types of exercises in the warmup section of that. If you haven’t got hold of the challenge handbook, yet you can get that.

[00:14:35] now, at a discounted price. storyaday.org/challenge-handbook. Again, the link’s in the description. If you’re on your phone, open up your podcast app, as long as you’re not not driving and click on this episode and the little information button, and you’ll find the links in there. Click on those, go through and have a look at the handbook.

[00:14:54] So in the handbook, it’s it’s not actually a book, it’s a, an online site where you get videos and exercises from me. And there’s 31 short story prompts, but every one of those has an attached brainstorming exercise, which is directly related to helping you brainstorm the topic of the, Of the prompt, but each one also has a warmup exercise and I encourage you to throughout the year, open those up and pick one at random.

And I always say in those Warm-up exercises, set a timer for five minutes and just free-write and I give you a topic and it’s usually sparked by a memory of yours or a question. And it’s usually related to the topic of that day’s prompt, but you can use these individually any day of the year when you’re feeling like writing, and you don’t know quite what to write, pull up one of these warm-up exercises from the challenge handbook.

[00:15:51] And do this, this play practice. Intentional play, where you dive deeply into a memory or an emotion or an experience or a something you’ve seen or something you’ve touched and guided by me. And then just write, just play with words for five minutes. And I almost guarantee it will take you out of whatever anxiety you have from your daily life, from the project that you’re trying to work on and it will remind you why you love to play with language.

[00:16:33] It’s a commute for you. It’s a mental commute. But it’s also a serious business.

[00:16:39] I start a Story A Day because I was sick of seeing writing exercises, which were exactly this kind of play because they weren’t connected to anything. And I didn’t really understand the importance Of writing snippets about you or a memory from your childhood of going up the stairs or whatever it was.

[00:16:57] And I got frustrated because I would buy a book of those exercises and then I would just be like, okay, so I’m writing, but I’m not really writing anything. So when I started StoryADay May, I was like we’re going to, we’re going to write, but it’s going to be with a purpose.

[00:17:09] We’re gonna write stories. And we’re going to learn to start, get through the middle and finish stories everyday. And that’s been great and it’s absolutely has its place, but this year I decided with the handbook to bring back in some of that warmup work, some of that practice. And you can choose to do the warmup and the brainstorming and the short story on the same day, or you can just dip in and any time that you want to write, you just pull it up, open up one of those warmup exercises and spend a little time experiencing the world. In a way that we don’t get time to do when we’re just charging through it, trying to get all the things done.

[00:17:49] Your gift to the world

[00:17:49] What we do as writers is a gift to other people. We give them the gift of being able to take a little bit of time to slow down and experience the world in a different way in the way that our ancestors experienced it. At that slower pace that everybody says they want but don’t quite know how to give themselves. What we do at writers is generous And

[00:18:15] healing, and it takes a lot of work. It takes a lot of effort. And we might as well enjoy it as much as possible.

[00:18:23] So please this week, take up my challenge of taking some time every day to see the world in a new way, to pay attention to the details, to write those things down, to challenge yourself to play in a productive way with language and practice so that when you sit down to work on a particular project, that will turn into a product that you turn out into the world. You’ve got whole of this material banked inside your heart waiting to come out.

[00:18:58] That’s what I have for you this week. Check out the story at a challenge handbook. If you haven’t already it’s at storyaday.org/challenge-handbook. If you have checked it out already. And you have a copy, do yourself a favor and open it up this week. Pick one of the warmup exercises.

[00:19:17] Maybe do one a day. Maybe do one every three days. Do these exercises in addition to wandering through the world with your eyes wide open, breathing in all the smells and listening to all the sounds and touching all the things. And don’t forget to wash your hands. But most of all, keep writing.

[00:20:18] Thanks for listening. Why not come over to the blog at storyaday. org and check out this week’s writing prompts and articles. And in the meantime, have a great, creative week. And of course, keep writing.