Are you sick of people telling you what you should be doing? (I know I am!)
There are so many things a writer ‘could’ be doing (social media, courses, mentorships, retreats, conferences, residencies…)
And only one thing a writer must do: write.
It’s easy to be distracted by the former, to the detriment of the latter.
So Much Noise
After the New Year lull, we’re hading into a season where it seems everyone is inviting you to attend a writers’ conference, a course, a retreat, a summit…and you’re going to have to tune most of it out—along with the FOMO—if you want to do any writing.
In my experience, the best way to stay focused and keep making progress is to limit your options: find one group where you belong, one teacher or annual conference that works for you, and then tune out the rest…for now.
Signal vs Noise
How do you identify the places that work for you?
There’s some trial and error, but here are some questions you can use while you’re evaluating different options:
Does showing up for these events make me more productive or just aspire to be more productive?
Do I come away from these events exhausted or exhilarated?
Does belonging to this group fill me with a restless energy to create, or do I feel like showing up at the event/class/conference ticks the creativity box and I can do nothing until the next scheduled event?
Am I inspired to write more, by the people around me?
Do I often learn something new that I can put into practice in my own writing right now, or is the teaching at the wrong level/stage for me?
If the answers to these questions are ‘yes’, stick with those groups, conferences or teachers until you start to answer ‘no’ more often than not.
The Most Valuable Question
That last question (“Do I learn something that I can put into practice in my writing right now”) is the really important one.
You might like the people or the teacher, but find that being with them doesn’t make you more productive. This can happen if:
They’re operating at a different level of ambition than yours
They’re working at a different skill level from yours (either far behind where you are or so far ahead that it’s not inspiring, it’s discouraging.)
It’s Not A Race
There’s so much to learn…but only so much you need to know right now.
Find the spaces that solve the challenges you are facing today.
Make progress on the challenges that face you today. Pause to celebrate and really FEEL that progress.
The rest can wait.
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It’s that time again: time to make your commitments to your writing for the coming month. Join us!
Welcome to the Serious Writers’ Accountability Group!
Leave a comment telling us how you got on last month, and what you plan to do next month, then check back in on the first of each month, to see how everyone’s doing.
(It doesn’t have to be fiction. Feel free to use this group to push you in whatever creative direction you need.)
It’s that time again: time to make your commitments to your writing for the coming month. Join us!
Welcome to the Serious Writers’ Accountability Group!
Leave a comment telling us how you got on last month, and what you plan to do next month, then check back in on the first of each month, to see how everyone’s doing.
(It doesn’t have to be fiction. Feel free to use this group to push you in whatever creative direction you need.)
It’s that time again: time to make your commitments to your writing for the coming month. Join us!
Welcome to the Serious Writers’ Accountability Group!
Leave a comment telling us how you got on last month, and what you plan to do next month, then check back in on the first of each month, to see how everyone’s doing.
(It doesn’t have to be fiction. Feel free to use this group to push you in whatever creative direction you need.)
Write with us this month, even if–especially if–it means you risk falling flat on your face….
Have you thought about joining the StoryADay Challenge but were too worried that you’d make a fool of yourself if you tried?
What if your writing is bad?
What if you can’t write every day?
What if you don’t finish your stories?
What’s the point?
What if you fail?
What is the point in setting yourself up for so many opportunities to fail?
OK, let’s dig in.
1 – Let it be bad
I’m not saying you should aim to write terrible stories, but what I have learned, in 15+ years of taking on this challenge is this: a bad writing day has yet to kill me.
Don’t attempt to edit or polish what you write, the day you write it. Let it be ‘finished’, not ‘polished’.
The key is to show up even when you don’t want to. Sometimes that will result in a bad writing day. Sometimes it’ll result in a good writing day. And there’s really no way to know what kind of writing day you’re about to have. So show up.
Promise me that you won’t show your writing to anyone during the challenge. This allows you the freedom to write whatever comes. We must allow for the possibility that our writing will be imperfect, if we’re ever to get to a point where we write something halfway decent.
Success Secret: Use software like IAWriter or CalmlyWriter.com/online in ‘focus’ mode, which will ‘grey-out’ everything but the paragraph/sentence you are working on, so you’re not as tempted to edit as you go. Alternative: try dictating your story into your phone or a text-to-speech software (Google Docs has one and your phone’s Notes app probably does, too).
2 – Make Your Own Rules
I say ‘StoryADay’ – and if you can swing it, it will absolutely bust through all the lies you are telling yourself about how much/often you are able to come up with an idea, and reduce it to practice.
But…
I long ago discovered that I hate writing every day during this challenge.
Seriously. I always take a day off every week during the challenge. Because otherwise I’m miserable. I made it a personal rule (I take Sundays off).
Some years I have encouraged people to rewrite their own rules after every 7 days of writing, to take into account what they have learned.
Make rules that will push you to write more than you would have otherwise. Make rules about what ‘every day’ looks like; about what ‘a story’ is; about what ‘finished’ means; and about how often you’re allowed to change the rules during the challenge (I do recommend that you only allow rules tweaks at the end of each week, or every other week…)
And if you are a person for whom streaks are extremely motivating, take that into consideration too. Commit to writing a story every day, even if some days that means you’re writing a 6 word story or 6000 words of stream-of-consciousness experimental babble.
Success Secret: Don’t go it alone. Come over to the blog each day and check in with the StoryADay community, in the blog comments, to let us know how it’s going.
3 – Practice, Don’t Chase Perfection
I always recommend trying to put some kind of ending on your story every day. It feels good. I trains your brain to push through the messy middle and not just chase the next shiny idea.
But that doesn’t mean the story needs to be complete or polished. There may be parts that don’t make sense, or that can be expanded, or where you have written “[history’s most romantic kiss goes here but I don’t feel like writing that today]”.
But do Future-You a favor and put some kind of ending on the story while it’s still ‘hot’, and you still have a sense of what you want it to be about.
(I come back to StoryADay Challenge drafts all the time when I’m looking for my next short story to polish and send out into the world. It really helps when there’s a substantial story there, no matter how imperfect!)
Success Secret: Use the energy of the community to keep you going, when the novelty has worn off. Come to the blog every day and comment on how your challenge is going, and cheer on the other people who are participating. Humans are social creatures (yes, even the introverts) and we’re not meant to do big things alone. So don’t try! Join us.
4 – 13 Reasons to Try
I’m asking you to write fast, messy drafts and move on every day. Why bother?
It proves to your inner editor that you can write whether or not you’re inspired when you sit down
It proves to you that you can write today, even if you felt like the world’s worst writer, yesterday
It makes you more decisive (in your everyday life as well as your writing). Writing is all about stage-managing every choice in your fictional world and for your characters. You have to get good at making decisions, and quickly!
It allows you to try out voice, personas, genres, forms and random ideas that you could never justify the time for, if every idea had to turn into a finished product. Sometimes these experimental wanderings reveal a new voice or genre that you can happily spend years with, after the challenge (it happens!).
It reminds you that you are a writer, that you have some aptitude with words, and that you deserve to make time in your life for writing.
It reminds you of how it feels to be a writer (who is writing).
It makes you think deeply about issues and people. This means you are more compassionate and creative when it comes to problem-solving in the rest of your life.
You are easier to live with when you take some time to do the thing that makes you feel most like you. (Trust me. My husband just came home from his office and commented on how happy I seem, today. Guess what I’ve been doing this afternoon? Yup, writing!)
It gets you off social media, and gives you space to decide where your attention goes, today.
It allows you to do some ‘deep work’, which changes the way your brain works, creating more space for brilliance.
It changes the way time flows for you. An hour spent writing in your story world feels very different from an hour spent scrolling short videos on random topics.
People love it when they hear you’re a writer (When new people meet me and my husband, what are they more excited about: the fact that he designed two drugs that are on the market and making people more healthy, or that I’m a writer? It’s ok, he’s not bitter…). It doesn’t matter if you have a best-selling book or if you’re ‘just a writer’. It inspires people to think about what they could be doing, if they would just let themselves…
You’ll regret it if you put it off, any longer. We don’t have an infinite amount of time in this existence. Let’s have some fun with what we have!
Success Secret: Celebrate every tiny triumph. Opened your laptop? Triumph! Read the prompt? Triumph! Wrote some words? Oh my goodness, you’re heroic. Celebrate every step on the road to a prolific writing habit with a literal pat on your own back, a dance party in the kitchen, or anything else that makes you smile and triggers the reward-circuits in your brain. Do it immediately and often, and create those reward-pathways that make your brain whisper: hey, isn’t it time to get back to your writing?
5 – What if you don’t even try?
Failure is how we learn.
If you can’t fail, you can’t get better, and you’ll spend your whole life envious of people who seem ‘luckier’ than you.
If you can’t face failing, you’re going to be stuck–and very sad–for the rest of your life.
Failures provide useful data:
You might think that you love writing at midnight only to discover that your 52-year old self cannot work the way your 25-year old self did. Good data. Now you can work on finding a time that does work. Why not start experimenting, tomorrow?
You might think you love writing romance only to discover that you there’s a dark-thriller writer inside, longing to break free and slash things.
You might think that you can write 5,000 words every day because you did that one time, in a caffeine-fueled deadline-driven binge. Discovering that you can ‘only’ manage 300 words in a single session before your brain turns off, is useful, and allows you to schedule three 20-minute sessions tomorrow and be delighted by your 900 word story, instead of being disappointed you ‘only’ wrote a flash fiction piece.
Success Secret: Treat everything as an experiment.
So grab your lab coat from the coat rack, put on your safety specs, and join me in the Creativity Lab, for StoryADay November.
Adventure beckons.
Discoveries await.
Join us!
Keep writing,
Julie
To Do Now
Decide now, that you’ll join us in StoryADay November. Sign up here
Leave a comment below, confessing your remaining fears (and let me reassure you)
And I’ll see you in the comments, next month!
P. S. Want more support, including daily writing sprints, monthly discussions, workshops, Critique Week and more? Consider joining us in the StoryADay Superstars.Find out more…
You are not a machine. Start living like a human, again.
Lately I’ve been binge-watching televisions series that I’ve watched before. And those shows are a, sci-fi and b, romance. And I’m not sorry.
And I don’t think you should be, either.
Whether you are taking time to write or to consume fiction or art or music…you are building a stronger, more resourceful and more resilient human–and how can that ever be anything but a good thing?
Time to Create
It’s October, and I bet you’ve noticed how busy the end of the year becomes. So much so that it can be hard to find time for creative activities that feed your soul…like your writing.
My invitation to you is to take some time today, to plan islands of calm, to make space for creation, over the next couple of months.
My ‘rules’ for StoryADay are that you attempt to start and finish a story each day that you write, during the challenge.
But I do encourage you to define what ‘each day’ means, for you.
Writing a new story every single day of the month is tough. And it might be more than you need, to boost your creativity and to get you excited about writing again.
Set your own rules
Want to write three days a week? Five days? One? Great! Make that a rule.
Then come to the site, pick a prompt from that week, that sparks your interest, and commit to finishing what you start that day, even if it’s bad, sketchy, has massive gaps, or feels like nonsense.
Most importantly, come back on the next day that you designated, and write a new story.
The point is to keep going, even if you’re disappointed in (or excited about) the previous story.
Build a stack of sketches, drafts, imperfect and incomplete stories, that you can draw on throughout the year, any time you want to write.
Improve Your Chances of Having a Good Writing Day
The only way to feel successful at this writing gig is to prove to yourself that all is NOT lost, if you had a bad writing day last time you sat down to write.
The more you write, the more you’ll discover how little relation there is between our effort and the quality of the output. Some days writing is easy and brilliant, some days you work really hard and hate what you wrote.
Since we can’t predict how our writing day will go, the key is to keep writing anyway.
More writing days is the ONLY way to guarantee more good writing days.
To Do Now
Decide now, that you’ll join us in StoryADay November. Sign up here
P. S. Want more support, including daily writing sprints, monthly discussions, workshops, Critique Week and more? Consider joining us in the StoryADay Superstars.Find out more…
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