The Power of Tiny Wins

Writing success doesn’t come from heroic marathons—even though we are about to embark on one.

The truth is that success comes from the steps you take to implement what you learn during the challenge. Showing up again and again, long after May is over, is what will drive you to your definition of success, whatever that is (more on that, next week).

And the way to keep showing up (aka ‘build a habit’) is to create an outsized celebration for every tiny step you take towards creating that habit.

Decide, Do, Celebrate

  • Choose one tiny writing task today—setting your intentions for your writing today; deciding to write one paragraph or sentence in your work in progress; opening your manuscript; noticing three Story Sparks, whatever. Just keep it tin.
  • Choose a celebration to do—it might be punching the air, doing a literal victory dance, spending two minutes coloring in a picture, laughing out loud, patting yourself on the back, eating a single delicious chocolate truffle or in-season strawberry that you have put on your desk before you started. Whatever you choose it should be absolutely immediate (no searching for stickers or promising yourself an ice cream later) and it should be something (like the a big grin or the victory dance) that changes your physical state.
  • When you do the good behavior, take the reward—We’re ‘burning in’ the ‘good behavior=reward’ pathway, as if we were puppies. And why not? It works for puppies, and it works for us too.

Further Reading/Listening

Listen to my podcast episode about the power of tiny wins and the Fogg Behavioral Model

Discussion

Did you choose an immediate reward? Did you choose a tiny task? Did you do both, one after the other? Did it feel silly? If so you’re doing it right! Tell us what you did:

SWAGr for April 2025

It’s that time again: time to make your commitments to your writing for the coming month. Join us!

Welcome to the Serious Writers’ Accountability Group!

Leave a comment below telling us how you got on last month, and what you plan to do next month, then check back in on the first of each month, to see how everyone’s doing.

(It doesn’t have to be fiction. Feel free to use this group to push you in whatever creative direction you need.)

Did you live up to your commitment from last month? Don’t remember what you promised to do? Check out the comments from last month.

And don’t forget to celebrate with/encourage your fellow SWAGr-ers on their progress!

Download your SWAGr Tracking Sheet now, to keep track of your commitments this month

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Examples of Goals Set By SWAGr-ers in previous months

  • Finish first draft of story and write 3 articles for my school paper. – Courtney
  • Write on seven days this month – Clare
  • Extend my reading and to read with a ‘writers eye’- Wendy
  • write 10,000 words – Mary Lou

 So, what will you accomplish this month? Leave your comment below

(Next check-in, 1st of the month. Tell your friends!)

Publishing Success in the StoryADay Community

Publication is far from the only–or most important–measure of success in a writing life.

In our StoryADay Superstars group we have a thread where we celebrate our triumphs from “not quitting” to “finishing a piece” to “receiving a ‘no’ from an agent for the first time” (which, of course means you plucked up the courage to send out a query to an agent), to yes, publication.

And though publication is not the only measure of success as a writer, it is one way to see how writers in StoryADay community is thriving: they are writing, submitting, and gaining publishing credits.

So, to inspire you to do the same, here are some publication successes from this community. I invite you to share yours, in the comments:

If you’ve had some publishing successes, I invite you to share yours, in the comments

Maybe You SHOULD Be Writing

Some weekend reading and listening to inspire you to write…

I’m in the midst of asking writers I admire to contribute prompts for this year’s StoryADay Challenge. It’s nerve-wracking, and takes a little courage, but I do it.

Then, inevitably, when they say ‘yes’, I experience Big Emotions: Happiness and, weirdly, overwhelm. And I want to run away from my computer!

Today I caught myself feeling those feelings. I took a deep breath and asked:

What if I don’t let the Imposter Syndrome rage?

What if, by creating StoryADay May, I really HAVE created something awesome that people love to support and take part in?

What if I am doing good, and that’s good enough?

And so, I ask you the same question: what if you ARE good enough, as a writer?

Some Weekend Reading/Listening For You

Creative Guilt Trip
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Discussion Time: How Do You React?

  • Do you ever struggle with receiving positive feedback on your writing?
  • Do you ever demur and dismiss people’s praise with an “oh, go on, you’re just being nice…”?
    What if you could stand your ground, sit in the discomfort, and let their praise sink in?
  • What would it do for you, if you could truly believe that your writing is good enough, of service to readers, and that you can accept praise?
    Would you become an arrogant monster? Or would you become invigorated and want to write more stories for people to enjoy (Hint: it’s not the first one).

Leave a comment and let me know

SWAGr for March 2025

It’s that time again: time to make your commitments to your writing for the coming month. Join us!

Welcome to the Serious Writers’ Accountability Group!

Leave a comment below telling us how you got on last month, and what you plan to do next month, then check back in on the first of each month, to see how everyone’s doing.

(It doesn’t have to be fiction. Feel free to use this group to push you in whatever creative direction you need.)

Did you live up to your commitment from last month? Don’t remember what you promised to do? Check out the comments from last month.

And don’t forget to celebrate with/encourage your fellow SWAGr-ers on their progress!

Download your SWAGr Tracking Sheet now, to keep track of your commitments this month

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Examples of Goals Set By SWAGr-ers in previous months

  • Finish first draft of story and write 3 articles for my school paper. – Courtney
  • Write on seven days this month – Clare
  • Extend my reading and to read with a ‘writers eye’- Wendy
  • write 10,000 words – Mary Lou

 So, what will you accomplish this month? Leave your comment below

(Next check-in, 1st of the month. Tell your friends!)

…But also: “How?”

A couple of weeks ago I wrote that knowing ‘why’ you are writing makes figuring out the ‘how’ easier.

But it’s not a magic spell. It’s not that having-a-clear-vision-of-what-writing-means-to-you suddenly leads to National Book Awards and infinite riches, or some zen-like state of contentment with your writing practice.

You do, also, have to think about how you will fit writing into your routine.

Simply believing you’re meant to be a writer doesn’t get the job done.

Why Without How

Recently I came back from a longish trip to Scotland, full of clarity about what I want to work on. It was exciting…in the abstract.

But each day, when I got up, I was unsure of what I should work on today, and each day I found myself pottering around with tasks that felt like ‘writing’, but weren’t actually helping me progress towards my (clear) goals.

I hadn’t ‘reduced to practice’ my desire to write. I hadn’t thought, specifically about how I would get it done.

Every day I fell into that old trap of asking myself what I felt like writing today.

Decisions, decisions, decisions…

Making decisions uses up energy (literally. They can see it on brain scans).

Writing, it turns out, is a series of decisions that we need to make on behalf of all of our characters.

If we waste all our creative juice on making ‘how will I work today’ decisions, we leave ourselves less energy for the important creative decisions that go into our fiction.

What’s the way around that?

Have routines.

And I know many of us rebel against routines, as creative people, so I’ll be talking about that more in upcoming issues.

But for now: what habits and routines do you have in place to help you get to the page? What do you struggle with?

Leave a comment and let us know: